When it comes to choosing a healthy way to eat, I’ve tried many diets over the years-some successful, some not. But the Mediterranean diet stands out as the one that truly fits my lifestyle and preferences. It’s balanced, flexible, and full of delicious flavors that make healthy eating enjoyable, not restrictive. In this post, I’ll share my personal journey with food, why the Mediterranean diet works for me, and how it can work for you too.
my early food struggles and journey
There was a long period in my life-from the time I was twelve until around thirty-eight-when I struggled with food and how much I ate. Unlike my grandmother, I craved variety and bold flavors. If I loved the taste of something, whether it was healthy or not, I would eat it without thinking about the future-only about the satisfaction of that moment.
When I was ten years old, I started weighing myself on the scale. By the time I was thirteen, I was counting every single calorie I consumed. I followed a very restricted diet, and yes-I did lose weight. But eventually, I began consuming large amounts of food excessively, and that continued for years. I couldn’t stop myself, and I had no one to talk to about it. Deep down, I knew what I was doing was destructive and damaging, but I felt powerless to break the cycle.
I would consume massive amounts of simple carbohydrates, sugar, and processed foods –junk food. Consuming large amounts of food excessively affects the brain’s dopamine levels, and the way I ate felt like the food equivalent of addiction. The compulsion, the craving, and the crash afterward were all too real. As a result, it drained my energy. I was constantly tired, almost like I was in a mental fog or stupor.
There were times when I truly feared I might die because I had no self-control. Deep down, I knew I was causing myself a lot of harm, yet I kept going. I wasn’t sure if I would ever be able to stop. I would isolate myself and consume large amounts of food excessively when no one was around, always finding a way to get the food I craved.
Discovering Boston’s Food culture
I was almost twenty when I moved to Boston, Massachusetts. Being surrounded by the city’s restaurants, grocery stores, and shops introduced me to a world of flavors I had never experienced before. The city’s rich mix of cultures opened my eyes-and taste buds-to a variety of new foods. I discovered different kinds of olive oil from around the world, feta cheese, stuffed grape leaves, eggplant, roasted red peppers, and some of the best pizza I have ever had-were often made by Greek owners.
Since Boston has a strong European influence, I found myself eating less traditional American food and more dishes that were rich in taste, texture, and flavor. For me, the Mediterranean diet made alot more sense. It’s a well-rounded, balanced way of eating that includes plenty of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins from fish and poultry, and healthy fats like avocados, olive oil, and a variety of beans, nuts, and lentils.
Why the Mediterranean diet makes Sense to me
The Mediterranean diet provides everything you need to stay healthy. It offers all the essential nutrients, including both macronutrients and micronutrients.-your vitamins and minerals-needed for overall well-being.
I believe that when you’re trying to lose weight and improve your health, it’s not just about following a diet-it’s about creating a sustainable lifestye. Most diets fail because they tend to exclude entire food groups or rely on extreme restrictions. But when your way of eating becomes a natural part of your daily life, it’s much easier to stick with it and truly live that healthy lifestyle.
Balancing nutrition with enjoyment
I truly believe that nutrition and exercise go hand in hand-our bodies are made for movement. I’ve always been an avid walker, walking thousands of steps over the years. I’ve walked in the countryside, in the city, everywhere.
And, I am not talking about a leisurely stroll-I’ve been a serious power walker for years. When I walk, I move as quickly as possible. Walking brings me happiness, joy, and a deep sense of personal freedom.
However, right now I’m focusing just on nutrition because what you eat makes a tremendous difference in how you feel every single day.
Sugar, simple carbohydrates, and junk food were my downfall. As a result, my weight constantly went up and down. I knew how to lose the weight, but because of my habits, I would always end up gaining it back.
my relationship with meat and plant-based foods
I eat very little meat, but when I do, I make sure it’s lean and low in fat. Occasionally, I have lean ground beef, steak, turkey, or chicken. I no longer eat grilled meat.I used to eat small amounts of deli meat or pepperoni, but since these contain carcinogens known to increase cancer risk, I stopped eating all deli meats in my twenties.
I have never eaten alot of meat in my life. Personally, I do not do well with large amounts of it, and I never eat it daily-usually only once in awhile. That said, I do enjoy a delicious hamburger and a great piece of steak. I also haven’t eaten much fish over the years, mainly because I’m quite picky. When I do eat fish, I enjoy cod, haddock, halibut, salmon, and shrimp. I also love tuna packed in olive oil, sardines, and anchovies.
Of course, I grew up eating whole-grain breads and cereals, legumes, lentils, nuts, and seeds. So, instead of following a vegetarian or vegan diet like my grandmother, I prefer the Mediterranean diet because it includes everything I need to stay healthy-and I don’t feel deprived.
I believe in eating whole foods and focusing on plant-based nutrition-enjoying as many fruits and vegetables as possible, along with good lean meats, fish, dairy, healthy fats, legumes, nuts, and seeds. There’s endless variety and delicious flavors to choose from.
Instead of margarine, I switched to olive oil-and I’ve been using it for years. Because of many heart-related issues in my family, I learned that olive oil is a healthy fat that’s very good for your heart.
overcoming challenges and building healthy habits
In my early twenties, after moving to Boston, the first significant change I made was at the grocery store. I reduced my portion sizes of desserts and sweets. I had been wanting to make a real change for a long time.
One day at the grocery store, I looked in my cart and saw an entire pie and a half-gallon of ice cream. I knew exactly how long both would last. So, I took both items out of my cart. Instead of the pie, I chose the ice-cream-but instead of the half-gallon, I bought just a pint. That was my first real, significant change.
I didn’t have anyone to help me with this struggle-I simply made the decision and took responsibility. Did I eliminate sugar altogether? No, not at that time. Over the years, I’ve continuously made changes and faced setbacks hundreds of times. But now, I am at a point in my life where I’ve lived through alot, and it has truly been and will continue to be quite the health and nutrition journey.
I have overcome many bad food habits, and I am so happy and thankful to have turned things around. Through it all, I’ve learned that it’s never too late to create positive change!
why it’s never too late to change your eating habits
Embracing the Mediterranean diet has been a turning point in my health and well-being. By focusing on whole foods, balanced nutrition, and flavorful meals, I’ve found a sustainable way to eat that nourishes both my body and mind. Whether you’re looking to improve your eating habits, or simply want to enjoy food that tastes great and fuels your life, the Mediterranean diet offers a flexible and enjoyable path to better health. Remember it’s never too late to make a positive change!
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